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Blame oneself not to choose well at the time of the setback

Meet the setback, no matter how blame others, are all ineffectual finally. Then we can only blame oneself not to choose well, because only blame oneself at any time, it is the wisest, correct life attitude all the time.

As a child, after we fell down because of carelessness, the first thought was to check to see what stumbled the foot, we blame others put things, find any can also blame Luis to be not smooth really arbitrarily always. Though does not have direct result to the lightening of pain to do it in that way, can find a target that can criticize for and can be regarded as a kind of comfort more or less, can prove that have no responsibility oneself.

After growing up when we meet the setback, do not always find out a lot of odjective causes either consciously to absolve oneself, it is not good to say one's own life while really finding the reason. We do not think that it is actually a kind of absolute naivety to absolve oneself like this, because we always cheat oneself by every means again and again.

Have one early to plunge into the commercial sea friend to make company move ' bad luck ' recently a few years, the originally more and more prosperous business suddenly fails repeatedly, has been following about he of vice persons in over-all charge of two pieces of business in the company loyal and devotedly and leaving him all the time for many years, even " job-hop " Have gone to his rival's company.

In having difficulties at home and abroad, this friend does not have conscientiously, make a thorough review on oneself in time, has criticized the companion in the past for betraying oneself simply instead, in so it is angry and sad to wallow in, believe others no longer, lose the temper easily, result vicious circle, whole of different minds the whole company, have fallen into greater predicament.

Having gone wrong on in fact managing in the company, he, as the company boss, can not shirk one's own fault at first, it is that he does not choose the right person for the job at first even if it is that others betray, if always blame the east strange in the west, impute all fault to others, will then face greater danger. Fortunately this friend realized the truth to come over under family's warning at last, begin, admit oneself the past of various fields place of fault, summarize objectively because one's own stubbornness bring failure and lesson.

It is actually a kind of cowardliness to blame Heaven and man, it is a kind of unripe behavior even more, have also conceal the reality that oneself can't be faced, has left the hidden danger that may follow the same old catastrophic road in the future yet. Without criticizing others for can derive, produce new contradiction also objectively. A real powerhouse is not a plain sailing luck fellow, must go through various agony and challenge, and defeat all difficult persons and must overcome oneself at first, it is to make a thorough review on oneself to overcome one's own prerequisite, only blame oneself.

Only blame oneself to be one kind and free. Because we are unwilling to admit a fault only take one's own face into account, unwilling to acknowledge one's own failure, in fact there is no an ever-victorious general in this world at all times, self- burdens and face have already been put down quietly while admitting one's own fault, he will become easily, getting so-called, good at, summarize one's own person can become own wealth the lesson failing.

Only blame oneself to be a kind of strength, and get used to criticizing the person of others for causing animosity sooner or later, a person daring to discipline oneself is undoubtedly noble, he will forgive the whole world strength, let all people admire their poise out of the ordinary and glad contacts. Only blame oneself to be a kind of realm. In fact even if others really have places that can be condemned, it is that it would not help matters to blame excessively, angry let alone solve any problem, and only an only feasible road from making a self-criticism by oneself, any problem does not exist in base. The enemy difficult to defeat is actually oneself the most in this world, when if already reach and only there is oneself left this rival alone, in fact he is invincible throughout the world.

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Understand the heart widely when being frustrated

Life is frustrated, unavoidable, always proud and apt to make people beside oneself; For fail sad, it is useless act it to be discontended with reality, all as wide to dissolve their with heart.

As the saying goes: ' less than satisfactory thing is often eight nine. ' do not allow people to be completely sad in life like this? Deny. You know sentence, let ' the realization of good things is usually preceded by rough goings '. We should have this faith: It is one course of trial to be frustrated, heart even can cool either when being very cold. Have A timely snow promises a good harvest sayings, the heavier, annual the more abundant the snow is.

' a wide one sky than sea, a loud one the people's soul than sky. ' life no matter how rub people, how compress in one little box all sides you, but the space of thinking is unrestricted, the visual field of soul has no hedge, incomparably broad, let you play an outstanding role in. Come and go freely, the pleasant place of the life is just here!

Stand high, you look far. Red orange is yellowish green and blue and green and violet-blue, colourful life is a variety of different; The life's joys and sorrows are salty, five kinds of taste, follow one's own bent; Happiness, anger, grief and joy sad to shy probably, seven emotion, taste to the limit. Do not have plain sailing life. If there is no setback in all one's life, rather dull, too barren, too dull. Fail awkward bearing disgracing where come on successful happiness? Perhaps you can not stand the cold warm blow that fail of favor, embrace the head to bemoan, has already said ' less than satisfactory thing has been often eight nine ', you yourself will also meet, then as it lies across a stone in the front. Put it in a correct place, pedal! Perhaps the visual field will be widened even more, the ambition will be more optimistic!

Being very kindhearted, people often give being tolerant to the stranger, give being gentle to the lover, but forget to leave oneself some. There is very useful a word, ask ' not matter '. Always say to others ' not matter ', or for being courteous, or for being kindhearted, or out of pretending to be graceful, or out of having no way out; Either really pay no attention to, or have ulterior motives. No matter for what it is, who let life have so many places less than satisfactory? If you want to mediate oneself, should learn to say so. The day to lack sunshine is very melancholy, you should learn says ' not matter ', the life which loses the friend is very lonely, says ' not matter ' that you should learn. Oneself has been already very tired, need a kind of sincere understanding, say the sentence ' not matter ', to yourself, to one's own and tired out soul. That is to say, do not let you indulge all fault, just crave for and free oneself; Do not determine to forget all regrets, just refuse to indulge in. It is just affective to console oneself.

Being compassionate, people see others are sad - -Except enemy and personal enemy - -Oneself can not be happy either, always go forward to advise. It is out of mercy to advise, the speech is very philosophical too, but the person that listens to may not necessarily listen to, may not listen either according to this behavior, because the sharp pain makes people numb. A authoress says: ' anyone's anything that I do not advise. Whoever started the trouble should end it, only touch it in person by oneself and can be untied in oneself hang-up in the heart, the friend's sentence, kindhearted people's words are all only catalyst. Oneself is the factor of playing a decisive role. '

In a word, frustrated and unavoidable, relax the heart for the time being.

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Let the happiness come into soul
Whether you have youth, health; Whether you have kindred, love; Whether you have undertakings, honors. But so long as you have happy soul, you are the most admirable person.

Even I am not rich; Even if my parents are never good at expressing; Even if I do not have famous-brand clothes. But I believe they are fond of me, they will let me experience I am their sweetheart's treasure by way of other.

Even I am not beautiful, but I can have a friend. I can make the world with friend gracefully and happily. One that is with friend intimate taking good care of, this the love of the parcel too. Someone shares when the happiness, someone shares when being sad, someone applauds when succeeding, someone hour supports the failure with one's hand   Is this happy life that everybody wishes eagerly to receive? And I have already got, that is because I have already buried the soul which has entered me of this kind of happiness.

Even I am not outstanding, but I can accept criticism. When I do the wrong thing, blame like hating iron could not turn into steel by the elder, but still there is a magnificent smile on the face. This is happy too, is the happiness that a kind of someone's tube, someone care about. Just like the grassland, sheep's mother is all taking good care of one's own child all the time, it is the same not to make them far away from one's own sight! Let happiness come into soul is happy to can accompany around often.

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Metre in verse of soul
I never know from what dynasty the music begins to become Flavoring agent that goes with rice or bread, suddenly stood up popularly after making no public appearances for a lot of years nowadays. But I really have no intention of enjoying in such an open-air sidewalk snack booth of tonight, the environment disorderly like this that I thought, is not so inferior a play level mocking to art?

" Sir, a song? Two yuan. " Present get me as him list of song, I disdained to wave repeatedly. However, it draws my interest that that of his puts on a suit of armour all over: Hold the violin on one hand, hold the handwritten song catalogue on the other hand; On the right carry one old erhu, on the left lean out a flute on the oblique canvas bag given a piggyback, hanging a enamel mug all scratched up to rock back and forth outside the bag, print above " The advanced worker "  Words faintly visible. It is great and curious that perhaps so funny a dress has caused one and about boys five years old too, so that child this tail with him, fiddle with string of the erhu. But he is not repugnant, with the head that the big hands that is caressed stroked gently the child frequently yet.

Sidewalk snack booth have brisk business, seething with people, but these amateurish accomplished performer nobody shows any interest in, how much am I to sympathize with him a bit. At this moment, a seemingly teenage casual girl labourer and a very large basin in the end rinses a pot of soup steaming hotly, coming up to the amateurish accomplished performer totteringly. Stumbled by the coal gas tube in disorder under the foot, watched the casual girl labourer not control suddenly ' live in, will splash a basin of hot soup towards amateurish accomplished performer and those boys five years old unsteadily. It is late, quick at that time when saying, only see this amateurish accomplished performer one turn round urgently, blocked the drowned and hot soup had to the boy with one's own body. Only hear " Crash pout " , the basin falls. The hot soup was watered on this amateurish accomplished performer's back, he has been totally shrouded and become qualified by the steam " The drenched chicken " . The sidewalk snack booth boils as bombing at once, people are so neat as to stand, all sight is cast on here in unison. Mother of the child that also spoke with confidence just now goes straight over screaming, see children are safe and sound, the tears tears are vertical-horizontal and can't help sitting down weak and limping on the ground quickly. But this amateurish accomplished performer checks the child from head to foot and looks as reading music book, that seem to shoulder steam of emitting is totally another person.

Boss of sidewalk snack booth see accident that happen, abuse, scare stiff already in a stern voice if wooden casual girl labourer of chicken, what the little girl can not bear like this is abused, begin to be struck and choked. Only see this amateurish accomplished performer stand up directly, use "  The ones that are like the simple and honest and low-spirited intonation of cello and refute this boss in kind are abused: Actually how is it on the rugged ground in addition, coal gas tube in disorder not to hack, the boss ought to bend the responsibility secretly, what reason is it to blame a casual girl labourer!

" Right! Right! Exactly everybody wide is echoing in unison.

The boss is totally kept under control by the sympathetic response that this overweight bass produces, have to hide in on one side gloomily.

At this moment, someone salutes and looks over the condition of the injury of this amateurish accomplished performer concernedly, but white shirt seem glue in together, make people dare, start with back already. Someone take the lead, give him contribute money, everybody respond one after another immediately, desk in front of him sell one layer at one time. I am moved by the moving scene before one's eyes, draw out a bank note of one hundred yuan and plan to put on the desk without the least hesitation, and this kind of generosity that will go beyond everybody soon for oneself and proud of secretly.

The enthusiasm that this amateurish accomplished performer faces everybody is moved deeply too, has brought up three bows to everybody deeply in succession, make a bow and throw out some beads of sweet from steaming hot head each time. The gift was finished, he has chinned up and chested out and put the posture of playing the violin, with the fluttering of the bow, the beautiful melody of a " devotion that loves " usually winds in the sidewalk snack booth: " So long as everybody dedicate to a bit liking, world will turn into beautiful human world   " Popular feeling ran high immediately, have performed the cantata of accompaniment of a violin.

The song was finished, this amateurish accomplished performer has taken a two -yuan note from desk. Return one step and make a bow to everybody deeply, until withdrawing from the sidewalk snack booth. Everybody is all gaping, became so quiet that you could hear a nutterfly, too come supernaturally half on the day. I have already pinching the bank note of one hundred yuan not donated yet obviously felt the palm is sweating, and there is ashamed sense that fell too ashamed to show one's face.

This strange and new concert of tonight, make this of mine have an extremely premium one to the music to count on " The appreciator " There was a kind of insight that felt ashamed of one's inferiority at last: The music for ears' pleasure can only be regarded as and done melodies, only by moving the music of soul can it deserve to be called the metre in verse.

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